GENZ’s Relations- should we take a slow walk towards love? or just simply not :)

 Genz’s -(people generation born in year 1995-2005 year group) 

Nowadays Genz’s life relation be like:

• “NOTHING SERIOUS, JUST EXPLORING!”
• “ I CANT STICK THROUGH ONE PARTNER FOR MY WHOLE LIFE!”
• *POOFF..LOSES INTEREST INSTANTLY*

Dating? commitment? 

well indeed we are fast food society and yes we have a pool of eligible people to choose from. But aren’t we just lurking and looking for flings??

While going to college, understudies or  experiencing a microcosm of this present reality. 

GenZ’s pay lease, work, make a way of life in an air pocket — and furthermore date. 

And on the other hand attempt to date? Attach? Have a thing?  

The general agreement: Generation Z dating could be startling and confounding. Youngsters can have responsibility fear, detachment or strife repugnance. 

Why is this generation so messed up??

Here below are some points in my opinion that makes this generation more messed up and fast moving.     

1. Exposure to outside world too fast.

• The latest generation has exposure to the outside world through very hi-tech technology via social media, movies , instant newspapers, instant gossips etc. And hence they get influence and attracted towards a life that is not theirs, or is just delusional. They start growing out of their little world too soon. Which leads to taking up decision early. 
• 2.Not taking up parents advices.

• Today’s youth are all 80% risk takers and tend to do stuffs that is not needed to do at that age and end up implementing their efforts, time, and energy on unwanted stuff
• 3.Early experiences lead to failures and heartbreaks.

• After taking risk and not taking up the advice, the strong influence that has maged the teen gradually then lets their choices down and gives them a heartbreak. Which gives them a lesson in a hard way which shapes up their perspectives towards relations and makes them doubt on their relation handling skills at a very early age
• 4.Some teens look out for love outside their nutshell

• In this situational cases, its not upon influence and wrong choices, its upon the upbringing of the teen. If the teen is lacking love and support from their close folks and friends, they often start searching for the love in a opposite gender which is just an infatuation or an attraction but later one turns out to let their choice down break them down in all the way and may clash their social life and parental life and continue to curse it both for a long time
• 5.Teens are now just bored and unsure about their abilities 

• This situational case has teens who have been lurking and exploring in dating life that made them keep less expectation from their significant other and often keep changing from partner to partner. This is often used as an escape from an early heartbreak or some other internal mental damage. These kind teens often make a strong perspective on not sticking through people and expecting more of themselves. 

Well..if you are reading this and are a parent, then lets just make sure you are providing all that possible love, affection and wisdom to your child. But at the same time you aren’t keeping them comstantly bound to some obvious things. You can advices them for good choices but often influence is more than wisdom astute words… so lets not pressurise them but be there in there hard times which they might face in personal and don wanna speak out. 

And if you are a GenZ teen reading this, lets make sure that we use up our energy and time in the ones who are worth it and towards the things that will add value to your life. Having experience is okay, but coming out of it as a better version and  not self doubting yourself is more important. Little do you know that if you spend your time and efforts in something big, we have a ability to change world at very young age:) 

Let’s understand most out of this:)

                                               -M.