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  GENZ’s Relations- should we take a slow walk towards love? or just simply not :)  Genz’s -(people generation born in year 1995-2005 year group)  Nowadays Genz’s life relation be like: “NOTHING SERIOUS, JUST EXPLORING!” “ I CANT STICK THROUGH ONE PARTNER FOR MY WHOLE LIFE!” *POOFF..LOSES INTEREST INSTANTLY* Dating? commitment?  well indeed we are fast food society and yes we have a pool of eligible people to choose from. But aren’t we just lurking and looking for flings?? While going to college, understudies or    experiencing a microcosm of this present reality.  GenZ’s pay lease, work, make a way of life in an air pocket — and furthermore date.  And on the other hand attempt to date? Attach? Have a thing?   The general agreement: Generation Z dating could be startling and confounding. Youngsters can have responsibility fear, detachment or strife repugnance.  Why is this generation so messed up?? Here below are some points in my o...

  Joyful or miserable? An old, astute master was on his deathbed about to die reminiscing with his disciples.  One of the disciple asks,”what is the secret to your joy?”  The master replied, “I always asked myself every morning of the day,’Today you are going to be joyful or miserable?’  And I kept on choosing joy everyday.” When you are joyful you are Pleasant to the world, sensible in your head, liveliest in your everyday moment    and do no stupid things to yourself.  Everyone of us here have been happy. Just that many of us didn’t know how to maintain that happiness.  Suppose you are on deathbed. You are going to    die and you lived a good long 100 years. And you just    look back and see if this was worthwhile. Live your each day with so much of jubilance, realness and vibrant that your life seems worth living even if you die tomorrow.  Well I don’t know if I’m going to be the richest successful woman, or climb Mount...

  ATHEIST OR THEISM? IT WAS ANOTHER USUAL EVENING WHEN PETER LOOKED AT HIMSELF IN THE MIRROR AND THOUGHT TO VISIT BARBER FOR A CLEAN SHAVE AND A PRESENTABLE TRIMMED HAIRCUT. SINCE LAST 4 YEARS HIS    TRUSTED BARBER HAS BEEN THE SAME. SO HE VISITS TO HIS USUAL BARBER SHOP “EDDY’S CLIPPINGS AND CUTZ” “HEY EDDY! BEEN MONTHS SINCE I HAD A GOOD HAIRCUT. ALSO I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE CLEAN SHAVE” “SURE! GOOD TO SEE YOU PETER SIR, HOW HAVE YOU BEEN?”  BOTH EDDY AND PETER GET ALONG WITH SMALL TALKS AND THEN TO VARIOUS REGULAR DISCUSSION AS USUAL.  AND AFTER SOMETIME THEY BOTH TOUCH TO THE TOPIC OF “GOD EXISTENCE” “OH,SIR I DONT BELIEVE IN GOD AS MUCH AS YOU DO”,SAYS EDDY. “WHY DONT YOU BELIEVE?”, QUESTIONS PETER. “I DONT REALLY NEED TO GIVE YOU MUCH EXPLANATION. JUST GO OUT ON STREETS AND LOOK OVER THE POVERTY. THERE ARE PEOPLE SUFFERING, LACKING RESOURCES,CRYING OUT FOR HELP. YOU DONT HAVE TO LOOK OVER OUTSIDERS, LOOK AT ME. I WORK FOR 12 HOURS AND STILL I DONT GET ENOUGH ...

Why reading matters?   What if I came and told you that there is one thing you could all do which would make you more imaginative, make your memory better, probably improve your personal people relationships and turn you into a nicer person.   You would be skeptical and even more if I say it costs nothing and even everybody can do this.  What is it? Reading!! And I’m not talking about the sort of reading you do it in your academic education or your organisational administration.  I’m talking rather about fiction, non fiction, narratives, classics, self helps  The sort of reading where you are reading things from inside another person’s head where it takes you right inside a character’s feelings and emotions so you start seeing it through their perspective.  That sort of reading which at best is considered as pleasurable and at worst its often considered as a waste of time. Long time ago, I remember my father telling me how crazy and fond he was of books. Bu...

  Heart or brain? Who do you choose? Long time ago, a girl named Jenny was wandering like a lost    soul in the forest. The wilderness had a perfect abode for all the doodlers and wanderers who didn’t know where they are heading.  Jenny comes across an old woman, wearing long archaic red cape dress with a feathered black hat. She had those sheer, clear wrinkles lining her face with those emerald blue bizarre eyes.  “Hello mam, can you please tell me where is this road heading?”, Jenny asked to the old woman  “Where do you want to go my child?”, woman questions. “I don’t know. I am not sure.”, Jenny replies. “Well girl, if you don’t know then it doesn’t matters where this road is heading.” Old woman said it with a smile. “Why do you say so mam?”, Jenny asks. “My dear, I’m afraid that your coming path won’t be clear if the where and why behind your journey is still undiscovered by you;)” Well,when we get our ‘why’.We tend to deal with ‘how’ and ‘what’ easily....

  It all depends on ourselves.  Are you happy? Do you think you are really happy?... think about it... Nowadays people mistake the happiness in comparison to more wealth, lavish life!  Well, Happiness is everywhere. It’s all about opening your eyes wide and looking    around us. Let me narrate down a short story to you .... Once there was a king. He was walking In a farm with his minister. His eyes glanced at a family who were buzzing out of happiness, contentment, love and affection. King questioned his minister, “how can one be so happy? I have a massive palace, and a lavish lifestyle, but still they see more happier than me. How’s that possible?”  Minister replied, “ Your majesty, I suppose they are not a part of 99 club.” King baffled, “what is 99 club?” “Your highness, just give me 99 gold coins and I’ll tell you what does that mean after 6 months.” The minister takes a bag of 99 gold coins and puts it right in front of the door step of farmer’s house....

  If you kill your inside enemy.  The out side enemy doesn’t harm:) Jee le Zara... Situation- I am happy. Way of expressing (then)- hoped around the house with a wide, ecstatic, coyly smile. Conversed happily, flatteringly with your folks around. Way of expressing (now): posted “feeling good” status. Posted a “happy, bright, good” quote with that “mundane” face :I Situation- I am sad. Way of expressing (then)- cried with face buried in pillow. Skipped meals. Way of expressing (now)- Blocked. Unfollowed. Ignored. Cut the contact in your socialising life. Removed your dp. Uploaded a sad quote. Situation-    I am angry. Way of expressing ( then)- “jaa, katti” , complained to their parents, punctured their cycles. Challenged your haters to beat you.  Way of expressing (now)- abused the person, trolled on social media, cyber bullied brutally. Didn’t we use these all small, silly, yet so simple and predictable ways of expressing? We all have come so far... we say, “te...

Even past has something good to offer. When it comes to attaining happiness, the usual suggestion is to live in the present and forget the past. But, sometimes past has the most beautiful experiences to forward for your current as well as future. If something is there in the old times and years that can make you feel energised and inspired then it is not bad to look behind. In fact, sometimes when you feel dull and destroyed, it is a past achievement or moment that revives you to stand again. The best way to do this can be a flashback of your old pictures, which helps you recall the happy days. Keep going back in old days as they may give a better idea to improve your today and tomorrow.  

  Cheers to the little things. No luxury in this world can be more pleasant than the soothing moonlight. The price of a luxury car may come under your affordability and you may feel proud on that. However, that super luxury car is less in cost than the sweet innocent smile of your child. If he is not feeling comfortable in that car, for sure you will want to bring the child out of it in the cool, fresh, healthy breeze. That again makes you feel relieved, as your child’s well-being is more precious than that lavish Audi/Lamborghini/Bugatti. This is life. The    ultimate goal of life is happiness, which is in small things.   Celebrations are not the slaves of weekends Certainly, the routines are very busy and we eagerly wait for the week to end.  Monday is the most stressful day and everyone is afraid of its tiring routine and gloomy feel that comes as the obvious consequence. But don’t you think that here we need to change the approach. Why to wait desperately fo...